Doing some more catching up on my blog writing! During one of the last weekends in April, I took my first solo traveling trip, as well as had my first solo couch-surfing experience. And where may you ask was my normal partner-in-crime, Nazli? – oh, she was off gallivanting in Greece for 2 weeks so I figured, “Well I’m not going to stick around here!” (Ok, also she has already been to Rome like 4 times and gave me that whole “been there, done that” speech so…I was on my own, but still keeping my vagabunda swagger! And the whole trip almost never happened as I just about missed by plane. After the bus arrived late in my town, I then missed the train into Barcelona, which then made me miss my original train to the airport. Ended up putting me about 1 and 15 minutes behind schedule (now remember folks, with Ryanair, you print your boarding pass at home, security takes 10 minutes and then there is always a huge line at the boarding gate…in other words, getting there about 1 hour ahead of time is normally sufficient). So, both laughing and sort of crying at the same time, after security I start running through the airport, shoes in hand “knowing” that I had missed my 3:00pm plane (now, 2:53pm). Just as I had lost all hope, I arrive at the gate and there is a handsome, 30-something airport gate attendant…our eye’s locked and I gave him “the face.” Next thing you know, I am beaming from ear to ear as I am the last person to take my seat. As the plane takes off I just start laughing histerically – disbelief, anger at my studpidity, and thinking what a great vagabunda story this will be on my blog!
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Kitchen Wall |
Rome was a 3-day whirl-wind adventure. I stayed with a local Italian couch-surfing host named Alessandro…a 30-something year old actor, working as chef to make ends-meet. He is a true believer in couch-surfing and has dedicated his whole front room for surfers – has three twin-beds spread out in different corners and more cots in the closet if needed (a nice couple from Russia were also staying there that weekend). My first night in Rome, Friday, Alessandro and I went straight to the grocery store to pick up the fixings for a great traditional Italian meal – fruits, vegetables, fresh pasta, beef and of course, a nice vino tinto. Alessandro’s comments on his couch-surfing profile page raved about his cooking and the man did not disappoint. Oh, and did I mention that Alessandro’s kitchen has also been transformed into a sort of couch-surfing scrapbook? His kitchen walls are made of tile so he came up with this ingenious idea to have surfers write messages with dry-erase markers before they leave! What a fantastic idea! Also, he has a running tally going of how many surfers he has hosted and how many from each country – I was number #307!!!
I was up bright and early Saturday morning, ready and rearing to go as I arrived at the central Termini train/metro station at 8:30am. Then it dawned on me that I had absolutely NO plan on how to tackle the city, let alone a guide book. So, after searching the shelves at a local bookstore I purchased a great Lonely Planet: ROME guide book (my soon-to-be “new best friend”) for 20€, plopped down at a nice café and started planning. An hour later I was headed straight for the Colosseum and the Roman Forum. The Colesseum actually has its own metro stop and it’s fantastic because the minute you walk out, there it is in all it’s glory, RIGHT in front of you! (Note about the metro system in Rome: The city government has been trying to expand the very minimal, 2-line metro system for years now. However, as one of my tour guides explained, getting anything accomplished by the Romans in a reasonable amount of time is quite nearly impossible…in the words of my guide, “the metro workers get there at about 8am and have their first espresso, they talk for a while about how they could possibly dig under which ever ancient Roman monument is at risk to expand the metro…ooop, break time, 10am espresso… they contemplate a bit more, where to get the best materials, how to construct the passageway (they are Romans you know, these things cannot be taken lightly)…ooop, 2pm time for lunch….(2 hours later) afternoon espresso, more contemplation….6pm they come to the conclusion that it is going to be a pretty major project and think it best to rest the mind and start fresh tomorrow.”)
As for the Roman Collosseumand the Roman Forum, I highly, highlyrecommend that you get a tour guide or join a tour group. The minute I got off the metro I was approached by a tour guide company and I was of course, like a good tourist, scheptical and asked a lot of questions, but in the end I was 100% convinced and paid the 30€ for a 3 hour guided tour of the Colloseum, Roman Forumand the Palotino. So, why go for guided tours in Rome? Reason #1: You skip the outrageous lines! (We are talking about 3 hour lines that are wrapped around the Colloseum, probably even worse in the summer time…all groups with an official guide skip the line and go right in). Reason #2: Rome is obviously ,anciently old and is really a very fragile collection of old stones…nothing is labeled leaving you to decipher their meanings or to read your entire guide book from cover to cover. Having a knowledgeable tour guide explaining the legends and the history or even just to say, “Hey folks, this isn’t just a piece of stone…this used to be a part of…(etc)” can make all the difference in the world when visiting Rome. Reason #3: For all of you young, frugal, broke back-packers, I know spending the extra buck on a guided tour seems frivolous but the difference isn’t that huge to wait in line; I think the Colloseum was something like 12-15€ with the 3 hour wait, and the other Roman ruins were around 6€. Another quick tid-bit of shared information about guided tours (doing a little promoting here): I had a FANTASTIC tour guide named Jonathan – nice British guy, funny, charismatic and really knows his stuff about Rome. I had him for the second half of the tour in the Forumbut he does a bunch of different tours all over the city (including St. Peter’s Basilica, the Vatican Museums and private tours). If you’re in Rome, contact him and ask what tours he will be doing during the time you will be there (ask specifically for him), he is worth every penny!
Contact Info:
Jonathan Silvestri
info@ForeverRome.com
+39 3664589388
Oh yeah, and the Colloseum…it is pretty magnificent but in need of a lot of restoration. You know that famous quote, “While stands the Coliseum, Rome shall stand; When falls the Coliseum, Rome shall fall; And when Rome falls – the World.” So architects are saying that currently the 4thtier is dangerously unstable and could fall any day now…so, might want to get there soon folks if you’ve never seen it. However, in my opinion, the Roman arenas in Southern France are far more impressive than the Colloseum…much less visited and thus more intact/preserved.
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Illegal photo of the Sistene Chapel..shhhhhh |
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Waiting for the Pope…. |
[Below: A video of me throwing 3 coins into the Trivi Fountain]
[Below: A video from on top of St. Peter’s Basilica]